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What happens if someone who has been abused their whole life never gets help?
Question : What happens if someone who has been abused their whole life never gets help?
What happens if someone has been abused (sexually, physically and emotionally) by many different people their whole life but never gets help? This person has already cut out all the people who have ever abused them out of their life completely but has never got any help (like see a therapist for example)
Is there something this person should do to get help or is it not really necessary?
Would this person benefit much from therapy?
And do you think cognitive behavioral therapy would help at all?
Sorry, one more question – what would happen, psychologically, if this person never seeks help?
whole life
Best answer:
Answer by C
This person is at risk of having depression, and that can lead to many other bad things. This person should really see someone like a therapist.
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#2 written by roncj88 1 year ago
YOu can cut out as many people as you want you will continue to open the door to abusers.You will continually follow the same pattern or take a path to lead to these kinds of people..It is not your fault that they abuse you..though..get some counselling ,take a 12 step program,get counselling for co-Dependant..sexual abuse hot lines can direct you…Carsa is one in Ontario that i know about..great people and very private..you will isolate so no one can hurt you then you will get lonely because of it and end up being around a holes…you deserve a better life..i sued the government for being a victim of a sexual crime…got good counselling…joined 12 step program for drug abuse just because the program helped me be a better person and set boundaries for myself so i wouldn’t allow anyone to hurt me again.
Trust me get help..if you have children statistics say that child will be sexually abused if you dont change the patterns..you are their example…you deserve to be loved the right way…I pray for you…dont believe everything you think… -
#3 written by Mike N 1 year ago
As a mental health professional with over two decades experience, much of it with individuals and families in abusive patterns, I can tell you that I was amazed at how resilient the human psyche / soul is, and I have found that oftentimes clinical intervention does as much harm, or has no detectable impact, as simply letting the individual “find their own way”, or providing some mental health assistance. I’m not speaking against clinical intervention, but I am saying not to worry about it too much. That person is going to make it, or not, whether the immense mental health profession gets involved or not. It’s much like our Medical Director once told us, after years of us fretting over possibly suicidal individuals: If a person truly wants to kill themselves, there is absolutely NOTHING that any clinician, with whatever credential, is going to do about it. And I can tell you that my practice in a major mental health organization, found that to be true about 99.99999% of the time. So, if the person wants help, help them get it, but don’t work yourself into a nervous breakdown trying to “help” them. If they want it, they’ll get it, I promise you.
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CBT has the right idea and helps many people.
Those who are not helped by CBT, or who don’t want to admit that they should get help for a psychological weakness, can be encouraged to strive foraccomplishmentss of various kinds by chanting with SGI. The practice will get them actual proof and, without their seeking it, psychological healing.
It works for everyone I know who gave it a good try.
Here is a short synopsis.
Convert Sorrow Into Happiness
By Generalist
It was always difficult for me to overcome sorrow because of ethnic persecution and an unhappy family situation. Life was always more of a threat than an opportunity and there was little to base confidence on.
The complete collapse of my finances created a rip that let light in. It forced me to examine what I had been doing with my mind and body. Religion had already disgusted me with the cruelty and corruption of the Catholic Church in Austria. I was open to any other suggestions on how to gain in life.
At a SGI-USA meeting, I found out that the method for doing that had all been summarized as Nam Myoho Renge Kyo by the monk Nichiren. He lived in 13th century Japan. Here is the, “just add hot water” version of his doctrine.
1-Everything is always changing, yet, there is a continuity of life and truth. That’s Kyo. It also came to mean vibration, speech, teaching, sutra.
2-Causes produce effects. Sometimes this is not obvious because of time gaps between the cause and the appearance of effects. That’s Renge.
3-Life is both physical and non-physical. That’s Myoho.
4-I needed to organize my mind according to what’s real in order to win. That’s Nam.
I started to recite Nam Myoho Renge Kyo. It took some time to discard my cynicism, even when I got phenomenal results in my life and felt completed. I later found that joining with others enhances the effectiveness and gets me a big source of potential friends.
Source(s):
My own experiences as a result of reciting the formula and working with friends for peace, culture and happiness
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